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RCCG Sunday School Teacher Manual 5 April 2026 Lesson 31 – Social Etiquette

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RCCG Sunday School Teacher Manual 5 April 2026 TOPIC: Social Etiquette

OPENING PRAYER: Father, help me to be decent and do things properly in every given situation. (Scroll down for RCCG Sunday School 5 April 2026 HYMN)

PREVIOUS KNOWLEDGE: The teacher should review the lesson from the previous week.

BIBLE PASSAGE: Titus 3:1-2 (KJV)

1 Put them in mind to be subject to principalities and powers, to obey magistrates, to be ready to every good work,

2 To speak evil of no man, to be no brawlers, but gentle, shewing all meekness unto all men.

MEMORY VERSE: Let all things be done decently and in order. – 1 Corinthians 14:40 (KJV)

LESSON INTRODUCTION: Etiquette, according to the Oxford Dictionary, is defined as a code (specific rules) of polite behaviour within a culture, society or professional group. Etiquette makes one behave in a responsible way distinct from animals. It applies to various fields of life: social, professional, business, spiritual, etc. When an individual displays respect for rules of behaviour, we say that person has good etiquette or manners. The Bible equally advises us as believers to apply decency and orderliness in whatever we do (1 Corinthians 14:40). Hence, believers must be guided in their dealings and interactions with others.

TEXT REVIEW: Titus 3:1-2

Application: Students should explain the importance of believers’ good conduct and social etiquette in a way that reflects their faith and upholds the principles of love and respect.

A. Love

B. Truth

C. …………………

D. …………………

LESSON OUTLINES:

  1. EXPLAIN THE NEED FOR ETIQUETTE
  2. SOCIAL ETIQUETTE

1. EXPLAIN THE NEED FOR ETIQUETTE

  1. People around us must not feel embarrassed by our behaviour (Colossians 4:6).
  2. We must avoid immoral conduct (Titus 3:1–2).
  3. Without etiquette, members of society would show too much impatience.
  4. Etiquette makes us cultured people who leave our marks wherever we go (Titus 3:8).
  5. It teaches us mannerisms, the way we eat, talk, walk, and most importantly behave in society (Proverbs 23:1–2).
  6. It helps us to relate with people (Philippians 4:5).
  7. The way we interact with our superiors, parents, fellow workers, friends, etc. matters.
  8. Etiquette enables individuals to earn respect and appreciation in society (Proverbs 18:24).
  9. It teaches us to value relationships (Proverbs 25:17; Luke 6:31).

CLASS ACTIVITY 1: Discuss what it means to do things decently and properly.

2. SOCIAL ETIQUETTE

  1. When invited to a social gathering, do not be in a haste to take the front seat (Luke 14:7–11; Proverbs 25:6–7).
  2. Do not call someone more than twice continuously. If they do not pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.
  3. Return money or anything that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers to ask for it.
  4. Always be modest. Be careful not to expose your integrity and character (Psalm 37:21).
  5. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is treating you.
  6. If you take a taxi, try to sit at the rear and make plans to pay the next time (Proverbs 18:24).
  7. Never interrupt when someone is talking. Always be polite.
  8. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, do not swipe left or right.
  9. If a colleague tells you they have a doctor’s appointment, do not ask what for. If they want to share, they will tell you.
  10. Do not put people in uncomfortable situations by forcing them to say what they do not want to say.
  11. Do not be a busybody in other people’s matters (1 Timothy 5:13; 1 Peter 4:15).

In addition, you should not rush for food or chairs in a large gathering. Do not jump queues. You should be careful to maintain cleanliness and avoid waste. Do not use reckless slang. Flagrant abuse of decorum, lack of table manners and improper dressing should be avoided.

CLASS ACTIVITY 2: What other etiquette are you willing to share with the class?

CONCLUSION: We must consciously guard our utterances and conduct as good representatives of Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20).

CLOSING PRAYER: Father, I receive the grace to be exemplary in my conduct.

ASSIGNMENT: State five (5) consequences of a lack of social etiquette. (2×5 = 10 Marks)

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RCCG Sunday School HYMN

  1. O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
    O how I love Thee well,
    I am happy, it makes me glad
    To rejoice at Thy birth.
  2. O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
    Thy friendship suits me well,
    Both young and old will sing Thy song,
    We long for Sunday School.
  3. O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
    Christ was Thy first teacher,
    The Holy Spirit, great teacher,
    Does manifest in thee.
  4. O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
    This testimony is sure,
    That God, the Father Almighty,
    Poured His blessing on Thee.
  5. O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
    Though the sun be so bright,
    Or if the clouds black with rain,
    I’ll be in Sunday School.
  6. O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
    I rejoice to see Thee,
    Will thou pass over me today?
    Without my being blest?
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