RCCG YAYA Sunday School Students Manual 26 April 2026 Lesson 34 – Social Media Romance
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TOPIC: Social Media Romance (RCCG Sunday School Manual For Young Adults And Youths (YAYA)
MEMORY VERSE: Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord. – Proverbs 18:22 (KJV)
BIBLE PASSAGE: 1 Thessalonians 4:3-7 (KJV) (Scroll down for RCCG Sunday School 26 April 2026 HYMN)
3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication:
4 That every one of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honour;
5 Not in the lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which know not God:
6 That no man go beyond and defraud his brother in any matter: because that the Lord is the avenger of all such, as we also have forewarned you and testified.
7 For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness.
Also Read: Open Heaven 26 April 2026 – Attracting God’s Help (2)
INTRODUCTION: In today’s digital age, meeting someone online who becomes a significant part of your life is not only possible but has become increasingly common. The platform helps people build connections that may lead to meaningful, romantic relationships. While there are challenges and risks associated with online interactions, it is equally important to recognise the potential for genuine relationships to flourish. Therefore, it is essential to understand how to approach such opportunities with wisdom and godly intention.
LESSON OUTLINES
- THE POSSIBILITIES
- THE DANGERS
1. THE POSSIBILITIES
Social media romance refers to the emotional or romantic connections formed online, often through social media platforms. Here is how you can approach this possibility:
Shared Interests and Goals: Online platforms connect people based on shared values, fostering meaningful conversations and compatibility. Oneness in purpose is vital for a thriving relationship (Amos 3:3).
Gradually Build Trust: Trust is essential for any relationship. Take time to understand each other’s character and intentions, avoiding rushed commitments or emotional decisions (1 Corinthians 13:4).
Practice Openness with Discernment: Stay open to possibilities while seeking God’s wisdom to see beyond appearances. Verify claims and maintain honesty (James 1:5).
Seek Trusted Counsel: Involve mentors and trusted counsellors who can provide insight to ensure the relationship agrees with your values and God’s plan (Proverbs 20:18).
Prioritise God’s Guidance: Pray for direction and build the relationship on God’s principles for lasting fulfilment (Proverbs 3:5-6).
2. THE DANGERS
Engaging in romantic relationships through social media can indeed come with significant risks that require careful thought and caution:
- Emotional Entanglement: Online relationships can create strong emotional attachments based on limited or incomplete knowledge, leading to unhealthy dependencies or emotional struggles (Proverbs 4:23). Without the full context of a person’s life, you might find yourself emotionally invested in a relationship that is not as stable as it appears.
- False Intimacy: Social media can create a false sense of closeness, making it easy to mistake online interactions for real-world connections. True intimacy requires time, face-to-face interaction, and understanding, which social media cannot fully provide (1 Corinthians 15:33; 1 Thessalonians 5:21).
- Lack of Accountability: Private online relationships may not have the same level of accountability as real-world relationships. Without the involvement of trusted friends or family, it can be easy for hidden motives or harmful behaviour to go unnoticed (Proverbs 15:22).
- Security Risks: Sharing personal information online exposes you to risks such as identity theft, stalking or exploitation. You have little control over who sees or uses the details you share, which can lead to serious consequences (Proverbs 22:3).
- Deception: People often present a false version of themselves online, hiding their true nature or intentions. This can lead to feelings of betrayal or harm when the truth eventually comes out (Jeremiah 17:9; 1 John 4:1a).
Given these potential dangers, it is important to approach online romantic relationships with caution, being mindful of the emotional, psychological, and physical risks involved. Balancing online interactions with real-life connections, accountability, and careful discernment can help protect you from these dangers.
CONCLUSION: When God is at the centre of your decisions, you can trust Him to lead you into relationships that agree with His purpose and bring you lasting joy.
QUESTIONS
- Highlight four things to note in the possibility of starting a relationship through social media.
- What are the dangers involved in social medin media romance?
FURTHER READINGS:
Sunday: Proverbs 18:22 (KJV)
Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.
Monday: Amos 3:3 (KJV)
Can two walk together, except they be agreed?
Tuesday: James 1:5 (KJV)
If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
Wednesday: 1 Corinthians 13:4 (KJV)
Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
Thursday: Proverbs 20:18 (KJV)
Every purpose is established by counsel: and with good advice make war.
Friday: Jeremiah 17:9 (KJV)
The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it?
Saturday: 1 Thessalonians 5:21 (KJV)
Prove all things; hold fast that which is good.
ASSIGNMENT: Write out five (5) Scriptures that suggest God’s instruction on a relationship (2×5=10 Marks).
SUNDAY SCHOOL HYMN
- O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
O how I love Thee well,
I am happy, it makes me glad
To rejoice at Thy birth. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
Thy friend friendship suits me well,
Both young and will sing Thy song,
We long for Sunday School. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
Christ was Thy first teacher,
The Holy Spirit, great teacher,
Does manifest in thee. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
This testimony is sure,
That God, the Father Almighty,
Poured His blessing on Thee - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day,
Though the sun be so bright,
Or if the clouds be black with rain,
I’ll be in Sunday School. - O Sunday School, on the Lord’s day
I rejoice to see Thee,
Will thou pass over me today?
Without my being blest?
