Topic: The Demands of Marriage – The Woman’s Responsibility [Seeds of Destiny 21 October 2019 Devotional]

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Submission is not slavery but service. Stop talking back at your husband, rather, talk for your husband.

SCRIPTURE: Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. – Ephesians 5:22

THOUGHT FOR THE DAY: Submission is not slavery but service. Stop talking back at your husband, rather, talk for your husband.

Also Read: Open Heaven 21 October 2019 – Safe in His Hands

It is important to note that the will of God for everyone is to succeed in marriage. This is because marriage is the first institution instituted by God on the earth. (Genesis 2:18, 24).

The truth is, for a marriage to be termed successful; it takes a dogged sense of responsibility from both the man and the woman. Having examined some of the man’s responsibilities in marriage in our previous teachings, today, we shall be dealing with a few responsibilities of the woman as regards marriage:

1 Total submission (Ephesians 5:22):- This is the action of the woman accepting the authority of her husband.

Get this: Submission is not slavery but service; submission is not weakness, rather it is a great strength. Kindly note the following:

  • When a woman submits to her husband in everything, it would increase her respect before him.
  • Do not talk back at your husband, rather, talk for your husband.
  • It would amount to a colossal mistake to marry a man you are sure you will not be able to respect and obey.
  • Wife, do not let your certificate become a weapon that makes it difficult for you to give due regard to your husband.

2 Interest in the Man (Genesis 2:18):- The woman is the help-meet of the man, hence she should be interested in the interests of the man.

As a wife, instead of resisting your husband all the times, assist him in fulfilling God’s plan for his life on earth.

You shall make it, in Jesus’ Name.

REMEMBER THIS: Submission is not slavery but service. Stop talking back at your husband, rather, talk for your husband.


  1. Make up your mind to be interested in what interests your spouse. Assist them to fulfill their God-ordained destiny.
  2. Carefully consider and apply the instructions in the study.

PRAYER: Lord, I make demands on Your help to be a good and submissive wife to my husband. I receive the grace to be more committed and responsible to my spouse Lord, in Jesus’ Name.

QUOTE: The starting point of respect is with your father-in-law and your mother-law. Culled from ‘In-laws, In-loves and outlaws’ by Dr Becky Paul-Enenche

AMAZING FACT: An Albatross can soar for as long as six hours without moving its wings

DAILY READING: Jer 37:1 to 38:28, 1 Tim 6:1 to 21, Ps 89:38 to 52, Prov 25:28

For Further Understanding Get this Message: Revelation of Marriage

DON’T FORGET TO ATTEND: The Healing and Deliverance Service tomorrow by 9:00am at the Glory Dome. Invite someone. God bless you as you do so.

PROPHETIC DECLARATION/WORD: The grace and humility to submit to appropriate God-ordained authority is released in Jesus’ Name.

Today’s devotional was written by Pastor Paul Enenche of the Dunamis International Gospel Centre (DIGC), headquartered at Abuja, Nigeria, with Pastor Paul and Becky Enenche, as the Senior Pastors. It is a power-packed arena where God’s Presence, Principles and Power are at work for the salvation, healing and restoration of human destinies and dignities

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