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| Author: Kemi Oyedepo |
Every man ought to know that there is no woman on earth who wants to have a husband who doesn’t know where he is going in life or even worse, who is going nowhere. It can be frustrating, particularly if she has located her own vision and purpose in life. In such scenarios, you find some husbands discouraging their wives or confining her to the home environment.
One of the major responsibilities of any leader, even in the family is to have a vision. You must locate your vision in life and communicate it clearly to your wife or intended wife, so she knows what exactly she is getting into and what she is expected to help you achieve in life with God’s help.
Any leader who lacks vision cannot inspire those that are following them; those they are leading will have no confidence in them, which tend to cause the followers trying to take the lead, and that ultimately causes confusion and friction. The quality of any leader tells us the overall quality of the organisation, country, business and even family! You are the God-ordained leader of your home; it is not enough to bask in that authority given to you, yet be a failure at it.
Unfortunately, many marriages and families are perishing because there is no vision (Proverbs 29:18). You are the leader; if you don’t want your family to perish, have a vision and get your family members on board. Leadership begins with vision!
Dear Man, whether married or single, have the mind-set that how far your family goes, really depends on you. And your family can go nowhere if you have no vision!
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